Giving Birth in Kazakhstan
Not another post about medical services but about traditions and superstitions about birth in Kazakhstan. I recently heard that pregnant women are not allowed to eat camel meat because it can make the pregnancy longer. I had never heard that before so I started asking about other beliefs about mothering and children. Of course, I have no idea how widespread these traditions are or how well-followed they are these days, but some of them were pretty interesting.
Instead of camel, traditionally mothers are supposed to eat predator meat–wolf or tiger meat, for example–to ensure that her son is strong and brave, although this is no longer really possible. Rabbit meat is also good because it makes the child fast and nimble, but too much will make him weak. I think they wanted to say that if the child is too nimble, he will run instead of fighting, but I couldn’t swear to that.
Traditionally, if you are visiting the house of a pregnant or nursing woman, you must bring a gift or something bad will happen to the mother or the baby.
One tradition that I know is still followed today by many is that the child is never named before their birth. Giving the child a name can “jinx” or tempt fate to make them die before they are born. Another is that men are not allowed to be present at the birth. But it’s mainly to protect the men who are in danger of being polluted by all the “womanliness” of the birth. Sending out birth announcements or invitations to see a new baby is also a sign of hubris that can lead to your child being struck down by the gods. You shouldn’t talk to much about a birth or make a big deal of visiting a newborn. And of course men can’t visit a house where a baby has been born for ten days.
By custom the baby is not bathed for three days. Some people seem to think that this is once again in case it dies early, and some people thought it was to not wash off its newborn soul. There used to be some kind of traditional bath made from sheep broth and the afterbirth, but no one I was talking to had ever seen it before.
Any traditions I left off? Any one know how many of these traditions are kept up these days?
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Great blog and thank you for your interest in my culture and country 🙂
Here are few traditions and rituals regarding pregnancy and child birth.
There are few more:
-Pregnant woman cannot have a haircut or dye her hair.
-We don’t have baby showers. It’s forbidden to buy baby clothes/toys before baby is born.
-When the baby is born, there are special messengers (anyone from the family) will go around the relatives and spread the news by saying “suinshi” and you must give money for the birth announcements (it also applies for any good news).
– No one is allowed to see the baby, except for immediate family for 40 days after baby is born. Then parents will make a huge celebration “toy” and invite all the family and friends for the special event. Babushkas (grandmothers) will bathe baby in the tub of water that is been filled with 40 spoons of water. Special prayers from Koran is made and that’s when we cut for the first time baby’s nails and toe nails and shave baby’s head as well. (there are exceptions like some Kazakh tribes such as “Adai” will shave baby’s head on their first birthday.
That’s all I can think of right now. If I remember something else, I’ll be happy to share it with the world.
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Thank you very much for this blog. Btw, we also have korimdik in KZ. Friends, relatives should give korimdik when they see a baby for the first time. This can be 500 tenge or more. Some give 100 dollars) p.s. put it in a baby’s pocket or give it to parents.